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Giving up your power

EFT tapping for issues with other people

Giving up your power is something you do when you allow someone else to upset you.

I admit it. It is hard to resist being brought down by someone that hurts giving up your poweryour ego. And anytime someone says or does something negative to you, it is doing just that… it is hurting your ego... and it's giving up your power.

And when we think they have to make us feel better because THEY made us feel bad to begin with, the power is still in their hands!

It is undoubtedly their own ego issues that caused them to say or do something YOU have labeled as negative and seeing it from this perspective may help a bit. You don't have to give up your power for the sake of someone else's ego. And if you've done this, you can take it back using the EFT statements below.

If you are not familar with EFT, feel free to download my free eBook.

But I know what you’re thinking… “Does this mean I’m supposed to let them walk all over me?”

Giving up your power IS letting them walk all over you. Once you’ve allowed the negative state… allowed them, with their words or actions to bring you down, there you are, on the level of the floor, with easy access to be walked on.

By staying positive, or at least neutral, your vibration is above the level of the floor… hopefully above the level of their words… and they "can’t touch this".

Maintaining neutrality is the only way to NOT let them pound you down into the ground where you have no power!

Maintaining neutrality is the only way to create a better outcome.

Try the EFT setup phrases below to neutralize the negative emotions.

  • Even though (s)he was disrespectful… even though I have chosen to feel disrespected by his/her actions, I deeply and completely accept myself.
  • Even though we all have our way of trying to feel validated and his/her way of feeling validated made me feel INvalidated… even though I gave him the power to make me feel invalidated… even though I have chosen to feel invalidated, I deeply and completely accept myself.
  • Even though I have given away the power over my emotions, I decide to take it back and realize that I am okay no matter what other people need to do in order to validate themselves and I deeply and completely love and accept myself.

Even more powerful statements to use at the tapping points, along with The Secret Formula’s guide to creating a better outcome can be found on Consciousness 101.